I have been
working on 1 Thessalonians 1 all week for a commentary I am writing. As I
was writing the application section I was struck by the fact that one aspect of
Paul’s ministry was letter writing. The following are some thoughts about the
pastoral practice of writing letters. I would be interested in hearing what
others have to say. Do you write letters as a pastor? If so, what is their
purpose? If not, why not?
Letter
writing is a lost art form. It is unusual to get a typed, let alone
handwritten, letter anymore. In the electronic age we rarely take the time to
sit down, pull our thoughts together and put them down with pen and paper.
Instead we have become experts at sending strings of abbreviations through the
air via email and text or we post them on social media. But what is lost is a
sense of history, of story.
One way that historians are able to access the past
is through letters. It is common to read a biography on a famous person that
has a substantial amount of information gleaned from letters that they wrote
and received. It is the same with much of the New Testament. All of Paul’s
letters represent his personal contact and communication with members of the
communities he founded. Because of Paul’s letters we know the story of the
Thessalonian church.
Traditionally 1 & 2 Timothy and Titus are those letters
which we designate as the “Pastoral Epistles.” But this is misleading since all
of Paul’s letters are by their very nature pastoral letters. They reveal the
heart of a pastor for people. Paul wrote to keep in contact with those he cared
for even when he couldn’t be there. He used letters as a way to maintain
fellowship with them. And even though they weren’t written to us they have
enduring value to us.
It’s easy to underestimate the value of letter writing for
pastoral ministry in the electronic age.
But when a pastor takes time to write a letter (even if via email) to a
person under their care it creates a connection. I asked a pastor friend of
mine, now retired, to share his thoughts/experiences of writing letters as a
pastor. Here’s what he said:
I wrote a lot of personal notes to people
during my years as pastor as one of several ways that I used to acknowledge and
encourage people. Rarely did I use a hand written communication for instruction
or correction as Paul did. My letter writing as a pastor was much more
relational and rarely confrontational. I'd scan the newspaper every day for any
pictures of church people, clip the article, and send it with a brief personal
hand written note, and thank them for their involvement as a follower of Christ
in the life of the community. I also wrote notes to encourage people in their
ministry and their walk with the Lord. In the late 1990s the Holy Spirit
prompted me to write an "I'm praying for you" message over a period
of time to every family in the church. I designed a postcard that I called a
Prayer-a-gram. I wrote a personal hand written prayer message on each card
saying that I was praying for them and their family, and as a part of my prayer
I was praying for them the dynamic biblical prayer of Eph. 3:16-21. I also
asked them to pray that prayer for me. I tried to write about ten cards a day.
When I had the cards for the day done and ready to mail, I'd lay my hands on
the cards and pray that Ephesians prayer over the people the cards represented.
Many, many people thanked me for the prayer cards, and quite a few said that it
came at "just the right time" in their lives. Several people have
kept those cards in their Bibles for years.
Pastors are busy people and asking them to take time to
sit-down and write ten letters a day might be asking a lot. But I do think it
is a practice worth making room for. We forget sometimes that the point of
church is not the buildings and the programs, but the people who live and
worship together in the context of community. Although technology may alter how
we do it today, a note from a pastor provides an opportunity to remind the recipient of
the work of God in their lives. It is a chance to strengthen their relationship
with the church and, as in the ministry of my pastor friend, those letters
often become part of the Christian’s story and connection with both the pastor
and the community. We adopt many pastoral practices from things we read and
observe in the New Testament. The practice of letter writing is one that might
be worth reviving.